The right person
I decided to share a little something we talked about with some of my followers on my last TikTok LIVE. One of them mentions the following sentence, " It's difficult to find the right person". To what I answer, yes, it is BUT until then... whenever you meet the wrong person, don't feel bad about it.
In Genesis 2: 4 - 25 we can read about everything that went on about the creation of humankind.
The one thing I want to do with this blog is help men understand women, and women to understand men.
So let's start with Men AKA Adam.
Then the Lord God took dust from the ground and made a man. He breathed the breath of life into the man’s nose, and the man became a living thing. 8 Then the Lord God planted a garden in the East, in a place named Eden. He put the man he made in that garden.
First of all, let's start by saying how awesome God is right. I will like to start by saying that Adam was God's creation, man is God's creation and no woman should ever talk bad about God's creation.
With that being said, Adam was placed by God in the Garden with a purpose.
15 The Lord God put the man in the Garden of Eden to work the soil and take care of the garden.16 The Lord God gave him this command: “You may eat from any tree in the garden.17 But you must not eat from the tree that gives knowledge about good and evil. If you eat fruit from that tree, on that day you will certainly die!”
He was supposed to take care of the garden and obey God's command. In one simple sentence, Adam was doing everything that God told him to do. That means that Adam was wired to obey and be led by God.
18 Then the Lord God said, “I see that it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make the companion he needs, one just right for him.”19 The Lord God used dust from the ground and made every animal in the fields and every bird in the air. He brought all these animals to the man, and the man gave them all a name. 20 The man gave names to all the tame animals, to all the birds in the air, and all the wild animals. He saw many animals and birds, but he could not find a companion that was right for him.
Now look at this, it was God who said " is not good for the man to be alone. I will make the companion he needs, one just right for him. " That means that God knows when is the right moment for the man to have a companion and that God has "one just right for him". Now Adam was minding his own business, obeying God, and taking care of the garden when God started creating all the animals for Adam to name them. Now imagine this, Adam never thought about having someone until this moment.
This gives us the hint that he named a male and female animal together, he saw all the animals having their mate and that's when he felt the need "to find a companion that was right for him".
That means He was looking for a companion while obeying what God told him to do. Now you as an Adam maybe you are doing what God told you to do, and you are looking for a companion that is right for you but until now you have only found " the wrong ones".
This is my advice to you Adam, sleep on it and let God handle it. Just like Adam, God knew what He needed and wanted, but Adam needed to be sleeping. "Sleep on it" means trusting that God knows better and to wait on Him.
Adam obeyed God, was led by Him and He learned to trust and wait in Him, now God made his Eve exactly like he wanted and liked it. It was so good that when he saw her, He immediately recognized her as his and said, “Finally! One like me, with bones from my bones and a body from my body. She was taken out of a man, so I will call her ‘woman."
Now Eve was created to help Adam. So women are to be a companion of someone and help them. That's why women always feel incomplete if they don't have someone in their life or the constant feeling of " fixing something or someone".
22 The Lord God used the rib from the man to make a woman. Then he brought the woman to the man.
Put also, Eve didn't exist on earth yet but she did on God's mind. That means that as women we have to be in God's presence constantly and He will be the one presenting us to Adam but it's Adam's job to recognize us as his Eve.
So to finish this short explanation about Adam and Eve.
If you are Adam, wait on God and He will prepare the right moment and the right woman for you and you will recognize her as yours.
If you are Eve, you have to work on your relations with God and He will prepare the right moment to present you to Adam.
Now you may be asking, what if the person that I like doesn't like me or my past relationship didn't work out? Well, that wasn't the right moment, God didn't present you to that person and that person wasn't the right for you.
Simple as that.